There’s No Ho in Halloween

Magnolia Ripkin
Written by Magnolia Ripkin
I don’t know about you, but when I was a kid back when the earth was cooling, we dressed up as nasty witches or snow white for Halloween. The fanciest we ever got was cutting holes in a bed sheet and shouting “trick or treat” while trying to see through the ever shifting fabric and fogged up glasses.
Flash forward 30 years or so, the world of Halloween costumes has changed a whole lot. Young girls have precious little to choose from that isn’t streetwalker chic. Teens are invited to Pimp and Ho parties. AAAARGH!!
Parents of little girls now have to wade through teeny tiny little bits of fabric labelled “sexy police woman” or “red hot firefighter babe”.  For 6 year olds.
Much has been made of this appalling trend, and I am so glad to see parents everywhere are speaking out. I would like to add this perspective to the public conversation of sexual Halloween costumes for children. There is an organization called Children of the Street Society  which has made some strong points on the topic. Here is a quote from a notice that went to schools in their area:
Halloween is fast approaching and we’re once again reminding parents and schools about Halloween costumes which glamorize human trafficking, gangster life and sexual exploitation.
Sexual exploitation and human trafficking are devastating forms of child abuse. Dressing up as a “pimp” or “ho” glamorizes the sexual exploitation of children and youth, an issue which has been likened to modern day slavery.
Youth are lured into exploitative situations for a variety of reasons including false promises, gifts, addiction and coercion. The reality of their situation falls far short of the image that is portrayed in the media. Rather than a glamorous life style, the victim faces multiple barriers and challenges including addiction, mental illness, homelessness, sexually transmitted infections, barriers to employment and long lasting trauma from physical, emotional and sexual abuse.
With the increase in online activity, more youth are vulnerable to exploitation and recruitment. Statistics show that 1 in 5 youth are sexually solicited online and 75% do not tell a parent.
Executive Director Diane Sowden says, “Sexual exploitation and human trafficking are crimes that rely on individuals being unaware or misinformed on the issue. Wearing Halloween costumes that stereotype or make light of these harmful forms of exploitation, only contributes to the problem.”
The message is simple: it’s not socially acceptable to dress up as a ‘pimp’, gangster, or sex trade worker this Halloween. Glamorizing or normalizing the sex trade and gangster life, adds to the false perceptions of these harsh realities.
Surely we are more creative than putting a 10 year old in a sexy flight attendant Halloween costume? Would you let your child include a fake cigarette in their costume and let them go to school with it? No, because that would glamorize smoking. It is just as bad to make street culture shiny and cool.
We can speak with our dollars to the manufacturers, and explain to our kids why it is wrong to represent something oppressive. And we should. It isn’t funny or cute.
Fred Flintstone costumes, now those are funny.

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Magnolia Ripkin

Magnolia Ripkin

Our Editor-in-Chief Magnolia Ripkin is sort of like your mouthy Aunt who drinks too much and tells you how to run your life, except funny... well mostly funny... like a cold glass of water in the face. She writes a flagrantly offensive blog at Magnolia Ripkin Advice Blog answering pressing questions about business, personal development, parenting, heck even the bedroom isn't safe.
She is the Editor in Chief at BluntMoms. Other places to find her: Huffington Post, The Mighty and Modern Loss. You can also check her out in two amazing compendiums of bloggers who are published in “I Just Want To Be Alone.” And most recently, Martinis and Motherhood, Tales of Wonder, Woe and WTF

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  • It’s sad that we live in a society where degradation is perpetually minimized. Sex, violence and drugs are glamorized and subliminally fed into our minds. People who dressed as football player, Ray Rice and his wife are disgusting. The parents who dressed their children as Ray Rice are even more appalling. Pushing the envelope is fine, but sometimes that envelope is full of bullshit!
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  • I remember back in ’84, I was dressed as a Punk Rocker (fully clothed from head to toe) for a Girl Guide Halloween Dance. One of the kids there was dressed as a Hooker… this is how I learned what hooker was– at a Girl Guide dance. WTF?! As for today’s situation. I have never been one to go for the sexy costumes and nor would I let my kids! Humour is always the way forward for me. Luckily, this year one of my kids has decided that humour works for her, too. A watermelon slice is what she wants to be. I now just have to figure out how to make a giant one that she can wear…
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  • Thankfully I haven’t seen too many of these style of costumes on our youth or for sale in my area. I’m grateful programs like Children of the Street exist but even more so I wish there was no need for them. Sex trafficking is a HUGE problem here in the US and we need to be vigilant and not glamorize or enable it in any way.